As we think back on hip hop icons such as Tupac, Biggie Smalls, Jam Master J, Proof, J Dilla and a host of others who have fallen prey to senseless acts of violence, we have to remember that hip hop is more than music; it has become a way of life. And as connoisseurs of the hip hop way of life it is up to us to decide what kind of life we want to deem acceptable in our society.

Hip hop did not start out as a means of promoting gang-life, violence, sex and perpetual drug abuse. It began as a means of artistic self-expression. It was created as a form of release to help the listener identify, reflect and feel good. It was about telling a story, lyrical dexterity and a phat beat. The Sugar Hill Gang, Run DMC, LL Cool J, Eric B. and Rakim, 3rd Bass, the Beastie Boys, MC Lyte and Queen Latifah are all examples of hip hop pioneers who laid the foundation of what would become a multi-billion dollar industry.

Now those billions of dollars have been tainted with the stench of blood shed, blatant disrespect of women, glorification of illicit sex and drugs. These portrayals are not what the original hip hop leaders envisioned.

Sure, change and evolution are a big part of any major movement, but foresight and a sense of  responsibility on the part of those who partake are key in ensuring that the boat doesn't veer too far off course.

Hip hop is a pivotal part of the fabric of our society, and it has been proven by the steady increase in merchandising, advertising and influence that it is here to stay...good, bad or indifferent. So now the tasks lies in making sure that people are not continuing to die in the name of hip hop.

This week's cover story explores the loss of one mother who has experienced the dark side of a movement. Let us read her story, understand her words and learn from her pain.